{"id":6591,"date":"2024-04-18T19:09:56","date_gmt":"2024-04-18T19:09:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vianlp.com\/?post_type=newsletter&p=6591"},"modified":"2025-03-24T14:42:02","modified_gmt":"2025-03-24T12:42:02","slug":"what-will-they-say-by-viktoria-jordanovska","status":"publish","type":"newsletter","link":"https:\/\/vianlp.com\/mk\/newsletter\/what-will-they-say-by-viktoria-jordanovska\/","title":{"rendered":"What will they say?"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Trees are already in full bloom and you can smell spring knocking on the door… energies are shifting and, maybe internal spring cleaning is needed.<\/em><\/p>\n

Let us begin…<\/em><\/p>\n

When I was little my mother always taught me by doing, which is a model I follow in all my trainings<\/a>, because I believe is the best way of learning. Many times I didn’t agree with her way of doing things, so I’d do them my own way. Once I would finish the task, usually she would come and re-do it because it was not done her way – the perfect way according to her. You can imagine what this does to a young girls’s confidence, right?<\/p>\n

I remember one day she tasked me with hanging the laundry. At that time we used to hang the wet laundry on the balcony, so all the neighbours could see it. Since I was young and not so tall, I had to use a chair to reach the ropes so I could hang the clothes. Up and down, up and down, up and down… until I finished. It was a hell of an effort for a young girl, but I finished the task the best I could. Satisfied and relieved that I am over with it, I went to my mom to tell her I have finished. The next thing, she took me by the hand and to the balcony. No, she was not satisfied with what I’ve done.<\/p>\n

“You’ve thrown the clothes like dead meat<\/em>” she said, “what will the neighbours say?<\/em>“<\/p>\n

After which, she completely redid the laundry showing me how it should be done, neatly, orderly – so, that our neighbours could enjoy the view of our artistically arranged towels, shirts, socks and panties.<\/p>\n

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Many of us have been raised with this limiting belief. Whole societies have been built on this idea. And, many lives have been destroyed by it!<\/em> This fear of judgment and concern about “what others will say” is a pervasive and often paralyzing belief that can significantly impact our psychological well-being, confidence, the relationships we have with others and the overall quality of our life. This limiting belief is rooted in our longing for acceptance and validation from others, leading us to prioritize external opinions over our own inner truth. <\/strong><\/p>\n

Before I continue on the subject, let me share with you a few announcements… <\/em><\/p>\n