{"id":3847,"date":"2021-12-04T22:41:20","date_gmt":"2021-12-04T22:41:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vianlp.com\/?p=3847"},"modified":"2022-10-31T22:41:48","modified_gmt":"2022-10-31T22:41:48","slug":"what-do-cooking-and-setting-outcomes-have-in-common-when-designing-the-future","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vianlp.com\/mk\/what-do-cooking-and-setting-outcomes-have-in-common-when-designing-the-future\/","title":{"rendered":"What do cooking and setting outcomes have in common when designing the future?"},"content":{"rendered":"

It is that time of the year when we see magical lights around us. When we reflect on the previous 12 months and we set resolutions. When we say good bye to the old and we are welcoming the new. When our hopes for the future are high and we feel festive.<\/span><\/p>\n

“New year, new me”\u00a0– these words are ringing like jingle bells in my ears every December and January.<\/span><\/p>\n

According to the University of Scranton,\u00a0<\/span>92% percent<\/b><\/a>\u00a0of people who\u00a0set new year’s goals\u00a0<\/span>never<\/b><\/a>\u00a0actually achieve them. I am not sure about this statistic, but it is even stated in the Forbes. It is a really shocking statistic to me. This probably makes you wonder, what are those 8% doing differently so that they actually achieve their goals, does it?\u00a0How are the 8% doing it?<\/span><\/p>\n

Remember, NLP is the science of modelling excellence.\u00a0It focuses on those 8%.\u00a0We don’t ask: “Why I can’t do it?” – because this places us at the side of the victim, at effect. Instead, we want to be at cause, by asking:\u00a0<\/span>“HOW can I do it?”<\/span>\u00a0and we look inside to find resources and outside to find a model of excellence. By replicating the process of the model, everyone can accomplish the same result in the respective field. Isn’t that amazing? You can do whatever you want to do!<\/span><\/p>\n

One of the tools derived from modelling excellence that you can learn and apply to every area in your life is the\u00a0NLP outcomes model. It shows you the process exactly how these champions set their goals and outcomes, achieve them and thus create the life they desire.<\/span><\/p>\n

Participants of the upcoming\u00a0<\/span>Masterclass<\/b><\/a>\u00a0on\u00a0<\/span>Designing the Future<\/span>\u00a0will learn and experience this model of excellence on the 7th of December. Contact us, there are still few spots open. As the date of the Masterclass is approaching, my unconscious supports me with resources in the weirdest possible ways. Last night it woke me up in the middle of the night to bring me this incredible analogy of cooking and setting outcomes. I am really curious how useful it will be to you? Please comment and let me know \ud83d\ude42<\/span><\/p>\n

Let’s say you decide to cook something for yourself and your family or friends. What is your outcome?<\/span><\/p>\n

Your\u00a0outcome\u00a0is the actual dish and your\u00a0intention\u00a0can be to satisfy the hunger or celebrate, or both. So,\u00a0you need to know what you want\u00a0to cook, right? You have a specific desire for something\u00a0specific\u00a0and you need to\u00a0have an idea how it will look like, smell like and even taste like when it is done.<\/span><\/p>\n

Once you define the outcome, you need to know\u00a0how\u00a0long will it take you\u00a0to prepare it? Will it take you 15 minutes or 3 hours?\u00a0When do you want it?\u00a0For lunch or for dinner? Or maybe for Christmas?\u00a0Who are you having it with?\u00a0Are you eating alone, with your friend, colleague, with your child or with your whole family?<\/span><\/p>\n

Then, you go and check\u00a0what\u00a0resources do you need\u00a0to\u00a0prepare the dish? Because you need resources. You can not make a meal out of thin air, can you? You can actually, in your imagination <\/span>\ud83d\ude03<\/span>. So,\u00a0what resources do\u00a0you already have available? You have a stove, pots and pans, cutlery, veggies, oil, pasta, cheese, meat, spices… whatever goes inside your dish. You also have some cooking skills, you have cooked before! You know how to use the stove, how to use a knife and how to wash and cut the ingredients. And, you have the necessary time available to invest in this dish.\u00a0So, you have some resources!<\/span><\/p>\n

Is there anything else that you need?\u00a0Maybe you have never prepared this dish before. So, you might need to call your mum, open the cook book or scroll the internet to find out the recipe from\u00a0someone who has already succeeded\u00a0in preparing it. Maybe you figure out you are missing a few ingredients and you need to go to the store to get them. Maybe you need support from your partner or your children with cutting, or someone to go to the store.\u00a0What are the additional resources that you need?<\/span><\/p>\n

Next, you can easily miss the entire dish if the consistency of the sauce is too watery or you forget the dish in the oven and the smoke alarm alerts you it’s time to stop scrolling down the screen <\/span>\ud83d\ude31<\/span>\u00a0You need to define what will you see, hear, feel, taste, smell so that you will know you are progressing. This is your feedback.\u00a0So, maybe you need to be alert to the specific smell you will smell, to monitor the level of the water in the pot, or regulate the heat and check the colour of the dish.\u00a0You also need to decide how often will you measure your progress?\u00a0Will you be stirring constantly on high heat or you let the dish cook slowly on low temperature?<\/span><\/p>\n

A very important question to ask is are you cooking it because you want it or is it for someone else?\u00a0What is in it for you? What are you getting out of it? Is it worthwhile investing your time\u00a0to cook this dish?\u00a0How will it affect the significant others in your life?\u00a0You might say “of course it is worthwhile to cook and eat healthy and invest in my well being and the well being of my loved ones”. Or you might say, “to hell with cooking, I hate it, I am only doing it because this is how it should be done, while I’d rather do something different.” Both are fine, just\u00a0be aware, because every choice has consequences and it will impact the journey and the outcome.<\/span><\/p>\n

Now comes the most important part:\u00a0doing it!\u00a0We so often forget this part. Only if there was someone else to cook for me, while I chill on the sofa. I don’t have the time now, I’ll just eat chips. I don’t have everything I need to cook at the moment. I’ll order a pizza, it anyways goes better with Netflix. Our brain can make up so many excuses, it can be a real “smartass”! Again,\u00a0awareness is key. And focus to the outcome!<\/span><\/p>\n

Define the first step you will do!\u00a0A baby step!\u00a0It can be calling mum to get the recipe, going to the store for the missing ingredients, opening the fridge, putting the water to boil or simply stepping out of bed. Baby steps count, too! Remember how we cheer for babies when they make the first steps?\u00a0Whatever first your step is, it is yours and it is already a big achievement!<\/span><\/p>\n

Finally, follow that recipe.\u00a0It is your action plan to reach your outcome.\u00a0You will for sure create a delicious dish.\u00a0Bon appetit!<\/span><\/p>\n

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Get in touch, I am happy to help!<\/p>\n

CONTACT ME<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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